Oh my gawd you can’t even imagine how much more Bad Ass your journey is when you have a group of Wonder Women who have your freaking back!

I was always the super controlling one who wanted to do everything myself. I felt like an idiot asking for help because I believed it was “weak.”

I never had a good relationship with women because I always felt threatened and jealous.

I would judge the shit out of them because I felt intimidated.

I felt like women were always mean to me and I didn’t trust them.

I am here to tell you that my broken beliefs about women fudged me up real bad.

Feeling alone and like the World was against me almost killed me.

In this video you will learn how to…

  • Embrace your Divine Feminine Bad Ass Energy

  • Cut the victim mentality loose and own your power

  • Access the Wonder Woman energy of every Bad Ass woman who’s come before you

  • Believe in yourself again because it’s your birthright to feel amazing


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Come join me as I share My NEW Amazing 5- Steps You Need To Live Up To Your Full Potential And Step In To Your Purpose

In This NEW FREE SPECIAL Workshop I Reveal:

  • My 5 step process to Having The Life You Want! 

  • How to feel in control of your happiness.

  • How you can breakthrough the negative, exhausted life you have.

  • How to finally release your guilt and believe you are enough

  • EXACTLY HOW TO REACH YOUR FULL POTENTIAL 


Video Transcription

Lani:
Hey girl! So pumped, you came to join. So, this a little mini workshop is for you. If you get these feelings and thoughts often and feel really bad when you get them. “I’m all alone!” So it’s like, “Me against the world!” If you think everybody is against you. So the feelings, I literally remember going my therapist and telling her, when I was in the old marriage that was very toxic and scary and abusive, and I was like, “People go out of their way to hurt me.” I just had such a chip on my shoulder. It was me against the world. I didn’t feel safe and I couldn’t trust anybody.

Lani:
And if you literally feel like, “Nobody has my back.” It’s just a total disconnection. It’s me, or you against everything else, we cannot feel the oneness of the sunrise. And we don’t have that being because every living thing is a manifestation of one energy, of one life force. The life force, the living energy and our heartbeat is no different than the flowers and the dolphins. So if you’re feeling this way, like, “Oh, I’m all alone. Nobody understands me. It’s so hard.” Then this workshop is for you.

Lani:
So the first really beautiful, amazing, I guess I could just say peaceful ingredient for not feeling alone anymore. Because when we feel alone, of course, shit is hard. Of course life is miserable. Dude, we weren’t built to wake up and be like, “Everybody is against me. Nobody has my back. It’s me against the world. I have to do everything for everybody.” That’s a really overwhelming feeling.

Lani:
So when women tell me they’re super overwhelmed and you know, anxious and depressed and just this feeling of like, “Can’t get out of this rut.” I’m like, “Yeah, of course you feel that way.” Because when we have this core belief and this program running and we’re serving this newspaper story that says, “Nobody has my back.” Nobody is going to feel awesome and safe and amazing. You can’t have the feeling, “Nobody has my back.” And be safe and fulfilled. It’s impossible. So when we feel that we’re alone and disconnected, of course, we then feel all of those other negative feelings.

Lani:
So, the Wonder Women Tribe, having a tribe of wonder women, I just totally resonate with that. I see the movie, the Wonder Woman movie, the Amazonians, or they’re all just like fucking shit up off rocks, and just like, [inaudible 00:02:27] and they’re just like, [inaudible 00:02:29], such bad asses. It’s like, I gave myself goosebumps on that one. It’s the epitome of feminine power and strength, because we’re so taught that being feminine is weak and you have to be passive and say yes to everybody. But it’s like, “Dude, this is our birthright. This is amazing. This is what makes us a queen.” So that, for me, lights my fire. Having this tribe of wonder women.

Lani:
And it’s not just the Lani show. What you see here, yes, I am an empowered leader. I am responsible for my thoughts. I can shift my energy so I don’t get stuck in a negative feedback loop, and I’m making an impact on this world. I’m sending out positive energy and helping women save their own lives and then donating enough money to actually save the lives of kids. So yes, that is true. I am this energy of belief. I am a product of my beliefs in my mind. I don’t feel like I’m alone. Every moment I feel safe and supported. Of course that’s true.

Lani:
But it’s not the Lani show. I am surrounded with the most positive women ever. I was just talking to one of my girlfriends and she was like, “Everybody’s complaining and it’s the fear right now. And there’s so…” And I was like, “Oh my gosh, my women are so positive. And I am just saying rounded by women who show up. And they’re just bringing harmony.” Instead of showing up and being like, [inaudible 00:03:58]. It’s like, “Dude, everybody shows up.”

Lani:
And it’s not about being perfect, which is so amazing because I know those little programs of having to be perfect and feeling like, “I’m not good enough because I’m not perfect.” It’s nothing to do with that. Sorry, got my hair stuck all up in my jacket. It’s not that. It’s that everybody’s showing up and trying their best and they have a positive attitude and that is such a game changer because we really are… We take on the characteristics and the personalities and the beliefs of the five people we hang out with the most.

Lani:
So, when you’re surrounded and when you know that you’re not alone anymore because you have 24/7 support. And that doesn’t mean, “Oh, I have somebody to freaking vent to and gossip with 24 hours a day.” Because that’s not a positive attitude. That’s real negative, and nobody ever feels good after they gossip or complain or play the victim. But it reminds us of what’s possible.

Lani:
If you get around a group of women who are super positive and are taking responsibility for where they are and what they have and get really excited when you win and believe in you, and they’re like, “Of course you can do it.” You have to try so hard to not be uplifted. You would have to do the little thing when kids are grumpy and you’re like, “Don’t smile or your face will crack.” You’d have to try so hard to be so bitchy and so grumpy to not feel the love. Dude, you have to try so much harder to not be positively affected, it’s hilarious. So really sis, get yourself surrounded with the group of wonder women who are already doing the things that you want to do and who have your back with an accountability. So with love and respect because it’s like, “A queen doesn’t settle.” So, of course we always have an option. It’s our choice.

Lani:
The second part is, when you feel that safe, when I feel safe, when we all feel safe, when we feel safe and supported, we can move mountains. So, when we wake up at a deficit and we’re like, “Nobody has my back and it’s me against the world. And I have to save everybody. And my fucking partner’s so lazy, or my kids are… Or my best friend…” And you’re the one that everybody calls the vent on. And you’re the one that says, “Yes.” When you mean no, and you’re the one that’s always overwhelmed and exhausted and you feel nobody has your back and goes out of their way. But you’re always the one that throws the birthday party. You’re always the one that’s there for people when they feel sad, but you don’t feel that same way, then you use… Your waking up already and using 80% of your energy to make it back up to baseline.

Lani:
But when you wake up and you know like you know the sky is blue, you know that you are supported, you know that you can tap into the oneness because there are so many other… Your the Wonder Women Tribe. My tribe is up to the hundreds and hundreds right now. But I wake up, and so do the women in my crew, knowing that they’re going to be supported and with love and respect, and there’s not a judgment because we’re all human. When you wake up already feeling safe and supported, you’re not wasting your energy trying to like, “Oh my God.” You don’t waste it trying to feel safe and supported. You actually now wake up like, “Okay, I got this.” And you get to use your energy for creativity, for evolving, for love, for magic, for drawing, for learning, for blogs, for podcasts, for fitness, for dancing, for orgasms. You get to use your energy to grow and to evolve.

Lani:
So when we feel stuck, it’s not like, “Oh, Lani has so much more energy than me.” Or, “All of her women have so much more energy than me.” Well, we’re not wasting our energy fighting against everyone and everything feeling so broken and alone, we already feel fulfilled when we wake up so we don’t have anything to lose. We’re good. So everything now becomes an abundance. That shit is amazing. And we really can move mountains.

Lani:
Like I was just saying, with my wonder woman tribe, with the crew of women that I have created, we have just saved the lives of two children. We started a fundraiser in honor of one of our wonder women who passed away at the age of 37 in a car accident. And we started a fundraiser like, “Okay, in Rosie’s honor…” She passed away with her soulmate, Jonathan, and they both transitioned to their next phase that day. And we said, “She’s such an angel.” I have goosebumps. “And she has inspired so many of us that this huge goal, what is it? Okay, we’re going to save a child’s life via Operation Underground Railroad.” They’re amazing. They’ve already saved over 2000 kids from sex slavery and human trafficking. They’re absolutely incredible.

Lani:
So, it takes about $12,000 to save one child’s life. We’ve raised $24,000 in two months with the Wonder Women Tribe of women. And because we feel safe and supported, instead of just trying to make it through the day, “I just need to make it through the day, I’m going to die.” Instead of doing that, we’re like, “We can expand, we have an abundance, we can move mountains.” And so we’ve already… I like to lead with this. We’ve saved two children’s lives. That’s what happens when you have a tribe of wonder women who are positive and vibrating love and trying their best to have a positive attitude. Mind-blowing.

Lani:
Okay. And the third part of this workshop that I wanted to get into is, what happens when we get our type of wonder woman and we wake up feeling safe and supported, we go from disconnected to connected as fuck. And by that, I mean, when we’re waking up in the morning at this deficit, like, “I’m just trying to get through today. I’m so exhausted. I’m so burned out.” We feel like it’s us against the world. And it’s impossible for any human, any woman who feels disconnected and exhausted and alone, it’s impossible to be able to expand. And instead of thinking about me, me, me, bring harmony.

Lani:
So when we’re disconnected, when we’re just trying to make it through the day, when we don’t feel like we have a team of support and love and positivity and a place we can go, a sanctuary that feels like home. When we don’t have that, we’re disconnected, and we make it all about me. So you bet your ass, I’ve never met a woman who was in her head, who feels disconnected, who’s overwhelmed, who walks in the room, and brings into harmony, “Oh my gosh, let’s save the lives of two children. Let’s do these free workshops like I’m doing. Oh my gosh, how can I bring harmony? I have so much energy. I have so much space inside. Yeah!”

Lani:
When we’re disconnected, it’s all about me, “My problems. This is what I don’t have. I don’t have a man. I don’t have clients. I don’t have this. Me, me, me.” It’s so, so selfish. I’m not saying you’re selfish, but I’m saying the energy emitted when we’re disconnected, and it’s all about me, is selfish, it’s negative, and it hurts everybody around us. It’s just a fact.

Lani:
So, we go from, “Me, me, me. Mine, mine, mine. I don’t have this. You did that to me. You didn’t do this to me.” A state of loss. We go from that to a state of abundance and being connected. Because the only reason I can sit here and bring this harmony in and not take shit personal, I don’t die if I get rejected or failed, I feel so proud of myself every day, and I feel so safe. And that is why I have an energy that I can bring in abundance and I can offer all these incredible tools and I bring a harmony, because I’m not making it about me.

Lani:
When it’s about me, we don’t care about the person next to us, we just don’t want to die. So that’s amazing, life-changing in itself. And we go from, “Poor me.” So the victim mentality of… I mean, the most common ones, “I don’t have a man.” But it’s hilarious because I’ve heard women in relationships say, “My husband is ruining my life.” And then the single women say, “Because I don’t have a husband, it’s ruining my life.” So you can’t win when you’re disconnected, when you don’t have a tribe of wonder woman, and when you feel like the world is against you, you’re only in this victim, “Poor me. My life is so hard.” And that, again, it’s so negative.

Lani:
If you walk in a room, and even if you don’t talk to the person and they’re in this super disconnected, like barf, and this poor me, you feel it’s so hard because everything is energy. So even if they don’t even talk to you or it’s like heavy and our energy field shuts and it’s gnarly. So we’re not bringing a harmony, we’re taking energy or making it about me and we don’t ever get an abundance out of a poor me energy. It’s just not what happens.

Lani:
So you go from the poor me energy. And then once we have our tribe of wonder woman, we feel safe and supported, we know that we’re not alone, and we aren’t in victim mode, so we don’t have to make it about me, we get to expand and connect and grow and bring joy, we get to the state of mind, “I can do anything.”

Lani:
It’s always so amazing when I talk to women who do this, who I’ve taught this to and they’re totally, “Okay, I’m on board. I’m totally taking this recipe because they don’t want to feel like shit anymore.” And it is amazing that their mental state was like, “My dad ruined my life. My mom ruined my life. I don’t have a partner. My partner’s ruining my life.” Whatever the story is, because it’s all just a side effect of being disconnected, being in the head, I’ll be like, “What’s your new blueprint? What does the new you believe?” And it’s always, “I can do anything! I’m unstoppable! I am limitless!” And it’s so juicy. And it’s not because the world changed. It’s not because they’re perfect. It’s not because of magic. They just took responsibility for where they are and what they have, and they made some internal shifts, which is amazing. So, I’m going to go a little bit deeper on what your next step is.

Lani:
Voila! So here’s the next step. If you’re vibing with me, if you’re like, “Oh my God, I totally feel that way. I’m exhausted. I’m sick of feeling this way. I want to move mountains.” Then you got to come to my new free workshop. So the link is in the description, click on that one ASAP. It’s free, so there’s no excuses unless you don’t want to feel good. Like, “I don’t want to feel good.” This is five virtually unknown secrets that will help you break free from guilt and finally fuel love.

Lani:
So, since we weren’t meant to do this alone, and since the beginning of time we have had women circles, birthing ceremonies, marriage ceremonies, death ceremonies. If our ancestors rolled up and saw us today frying our brains on our freaking phone and being so disconnected from spirit and so disconnected from our feminine, they would be like, “What the F? You guys have gone backwards.” They would have think that they went back 200,000 years back. And it’s so crazy.

Lani:
What our problem is, it’s not that you’re not good enough, or you can’t access this, or you were the only one born without the ability to have a connection with this sisterhood, it’s that we’re missing our connection to spirit. And the best way to strengthen your feminine energy is by being your around other women and their feminine energy.

Lani:
And because my standards are super high, it doesn’t matter if it’s free, I don’t change the way I act, this has been working for me for years and I know because I can measure it because my compassion is greater. My depth, my ability to be present in the moment and my feminine becomes deeper and it becomes greater, so it’s not the new, cool thing on Instagram. This is ancient and sacred and it’s been working since the beginning of time. So, coming into a group of women and just, if you want to know what it feels like to come into a tribe of wonder women, get into this free workshop.

Lani:
Again, I’ve got goosebumps, because my standards are so high, it’s such a beautiful connection, immediately you’ll feel your feminine, immediately I’ll guide you on how to tap in, come deeper and feel these feelings of being safe. Not because anybody saved you and not because the world changed, because you have the ability to access that within you. And the fastest quickest way is by being around other women who have already accessed it in themselves.

Lani:
So if you’re ready to do something about it, of course, if you don’t want to do anything, and if you want to complain, and if you want all these amazing results without putting any effort, don’t come because that’s just crazy pants. I’m all about the truth and I’m not going to lie to you, we actually have to… We live in a world of three-dimension, we have to actually do something about it. We have to make a move. We have to take responsibility.

Lani:
And if you are ready for that, come to this workshop, it’s going to be amazing. Feel the love and the energy and see what’s actually possible when you leave that broken belief of, “I’m alone and the world’s against me.” And when you actually connect to real women and realize that it’s not… Your problems aren’t yours, you’re not the only one that feels this way. That’s such a game changer to be around other women. And instead of thinking, it’s just you, “Oh my God, I’m alone. Oh my God, nobody understands.” The ego doesn’t have any new problems so everybody can totally resonate because they all have an ego and they’re like, “Oh yeah, I remember when I felt that way too.”

Lani:
But the amazing thing, when we go from disconnected as fuck and we make it all about me, and we think that it’s mine and my problem, when we actually are able to connect and expand, we realize that it’s not like you, it’s a human ego, collective consciousness thing. And that makes it really easy to not take it personal, not put your problems on a pedestal. And it’s so much easier to let go of what’s not serving you and then open the flood gates to what is.

Lani:
So the link is description. Get in that workshop now. Thanks for listening. See you in the workshop.