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Lani:

In this video, I’m talking about how to connect to your guardian angel. Before we get started, hit the subscribe button so you know when I do new videos every Tuesday and Thursday. The bell icon, so you’re the first one to notice. And hit the Like button it helps so much. I’m so freaking excited to talk about this today, how to connect and feel your guardian angel.

Lani:
Just this morning when I was meditating, I already have goosebumps, my grandma who’s my guardian angel, came in so strong and I actually felt her hug me. I could feel it. And I have full on conversations with my grandma. Things from when I’m doing these huge epic workshops with hundreds of women all over the world. I’m like goosebumps again. I’m like, “All right grams,” and we have a conversation. And I feel her and hang out with her.

Lani:
Every morning in my meditations too, when I’m at CrossFit and we were doing the open and I felt like I was going to chunder and like I was going to fucking die. And I’m like, “Grandma. I need your help right now.” So I always talk to my grandma. She’s always with me. I’m never alone.

Lani:
And I cry in my meditations. It’s so amazing because I feel so much unconditional love. So this morning when I felt her actually hug me, I felt her spirit hug me, I was like, “Oh, I got to do a video on this today,” because it was one of the most beautiful experiences. And that’s just how I start my morning. I get to feel this unconditional love. And it’s not because I’m special, it’s because I’m open and connected.

Lani:
So I’m just going to share the three simple steps that… I like to break stuff down in three because it really is that simple. It really is. It is so mind blowing that we can be so successful and I could be getting younger every day and sexier every day.

Lani:
I saw this chick on TikTok and was like, “38, too old for TikTok.” I’m like, “Dude, I’m going to be 39 and my shit’s banging.” I literally feel like Adriana Lima, my body’s doing things I didn’t even know I could do. I’m sharing more love, more sessions, more clients. We’re having breakthrough months and money. Over 60K a month in cash. We’re donating more money than we’ve ever donated in our life.

Lani:
So this shit works and it’s not complicated. It’s so simple. And the answer is always love. So today I am talking about how to connect and feel your guardian angel. And the basis of it is love and the way we connect to love is so simple that a child can do it. So that’s why I share all of these things. And actually just did a group session this past weekend. And I’ve been having so many women, this is like one of my things.

Lani:
Guardian angels always come through when I’m doing sessions. Always. It’s happened so much because we’ve gotten so many new clients so fast. And I’m like, I think my theory is that since my grandma’s my guardian angel. And she goes around and tells the angels, “She’s cool. She’s even totally helped. She wants whoever you’re guarding and sharing love with to feel the best.”

Lani:
And I’ve had two women who literally just told me, one Marie, her mom has passed and she’s her guardian angel. And she’s like, “My mom led me to you.” And it’s not to me because I’m not special. I’m literally just sharing the love that Mother Earth is pouring into me. She’s my source. I fucking, I’m a servant of this love and I’m the universe and Mother Earth. I’m not special.

Lani:
So it’s not me. I’m just this vessel that the truth is coming through. Goosebumps again. And then I just have a brand new client, Jen, and she’s like, “My dad is my guardian angel and he fully led me to you.” I’m covered in goosebumps. And I’m like, “Ah, I hear this all the time.” And I just think it’s because my grandma’s always got my fucking back. I feel like she’s just sitting there like, “What? Come at me.” Just protecting me all the time. She’s amazing.

Lani:
So that’s my theory. I always have beliefs that match to… they have a positive connection to what I want to feel. And that’s how I can grow so fast and go all in. And even though there is rejection and failure, whatever. So I used to think it was weird. And I can tell that when people start, they’re like, “Oh.” I’m like, “I’m not going to judge you. I’m the fucking weird one. Guardian angels come to me all the time.”

Lani:
So it’s awesome and amazing. And obviously you can call it love. Obviously you can call it safety or support or connection. But if you didn’t have somebody who loved you unconditionally, you wouldn’t be here. And so the ego is always going to remember the really miserable negative parts. And like, “No one.” But it’s like, dude, you wouldn’t be here. No one would have fed you or looked after you or given you a home.

Lani:
And I understand that there’s a lot of trauma and I’m not saying be delusional and forget that, but I’m saying let’s blame evenly. If you’re going to blame people for all the shitty programs they gave you, then blame them for why you’re so freaking strong and resilient and awesome and funny and caring too.

Lani:
So the first thing that you have to do to connect to your guardian angel and the first decision, is you have to want to. And it is a decision. It’s that simple. So it’s like someone can be like, “Oh, I suffered for 10 years of my life, was so miserable. And then I made these changes.” And it didn’t take 10 years to make the decision that you were ready. It took one second. So it didn’t take me two years to leave my marriage. I was in my head and in my head into my head. And I wasn’t deciding to be ready to leave those programs that I was unworthy.

Lani:
So this first step is so simple. It is just decide that you’re ready and you want to feel unconditional love. That’s all you have to do. I tell my clients like, “How do you set a cup of water down? Well you decide. It’s like don’t make it dramatic. Don’t overcomplicate. I know that when you’re thirsty, you decide to go get up and get a drink. Let’s just not act like this is anything new or weird. So decide.”

Lani:
Because I always say, and I tried this for a lot of times. I’ve tried this a lot. I cannot teach a woman to feel unconditional love if she doesn’t want to. So I always give the visual of a little kid. It’s like if a little kid does not want to feel better, throwing the tantrum. Losing their mind. It’s like, “Dude, seriously, you could just pick up your three toys and this could totally be over. And you could come out of your room. And you could eat your ice cream and watch your cartoons. And we could all be happy and we could all have fun together.” “No.” It’s like, “Okay, do you want to feel better? Do you want a solution? Do you want to solve this problem? Because all you have to do is this tiny little task.” And the kid doesn’t want to.

Lani:
So there’s no difference. It’s like if you’ve decided that you don’t want to feel better because you don’t want to let go of the past, you don’t want to forgive. You don’t want to take responsibility and go, “Dude, I was lazy. I was fucked up. I was lying to myself.” If you don’t want that first step, and if you don’t want to feel better than nobody can help you. So the first step is deciding that you are ready to feel unconditional love.

Lani:
The second step is getting out of your freaking head and into your body. And I actually have a meditation that’s incredible. So I normally only share my meditations with clients, but I have one on YouTube. It’s how to connect to unconditional love, my higher power. And who I connect to is Mother Earth. I have Muslim clients, I have Christian clients. I have women who believe in the solar system, in the universe.

Lani:
So it’s all just love. I’ll put the link in the description. So step two is do my unconditional love meditation. That’s going to teach you exactly how to get out of your head and how to get in your body. It is impossible to connect to our guardian angels and to feel the unconditional love from people that we loved most in the entire world. I’m getting, just feeling all… My grandma’s just…

Lani:
I feel so much love from my grandma. I can close my eyes at any minute and go to moments where that same feeling that I got this morning, that hug, right. I know that I feel so safe in her arms. I know that she always loved me unconditionally. I could look in her eyes and just feel it to my core of my soul. And I can’t feel that love if I’m in my head.

Lani:
I have never felt love from my guardian angel, from my grandma, when I had anxiety. I’ve never been able to receive this unconditional love from my guardian angel when I was angry. So just in case you’re wondering what does in my head mean, it’s anything negative, any negative feelings, any negative feelings whatsoever because you cannot be happy and totally, totally free and peaceful at the same time. It’s impossible. That’s like saying it’s light and dark at the same time.

Lani:
I’m not saying anything’s wrong, I’m just saying you cannot feel love and feel misery at the same time. If that’s your definition of love, I know why you’re fucking miserable. Because my definition of love is unconditional love, safety, joy, peace and freedom. It’s limitless. It is just exponentially through the cosmos, one with the universe. So if yours has negative in it, there’s your first problem.

Lani:
But it’s just as simple as that. When you’re out of your head and into your body, and this meditation will guide you exactly how to do that. You can actually be in a state where you can receive. So picture it like if you have a cup and you’re like, “Oh, okay.” So let’s just say that unconditional love and connecting to your guardian angel is like filling the cup up.

Lani:
You have to take your lid off. It doesn’t matter how amazing the person is that is trying to teach you how to fill up your cup, or how tasty the water is, or how blessed it’s been, or how many priests are in line, or how many Buddhists, or if Jesus Christ himself came down to help you. If you don’t take the lid off, it’s impossible. It’s never going to work. So we have to be in body and open.

Lani:
I just word it like opening the door from your soul to your higher power. So that’s step two, you have to be open. And I’m going to ask you in the comments, just as we’re getting into step three, who your guardian angel is. And just a sentence or two about how you feel, the signs they give you or how you feel when you feel your guardian angel there.

Lani:
So, some people say numbers. I have a client who says she can smell her guardian angel. Songs, birds, rainbows. I’ve heard it all. So let me know who your guardian angel is in the comments and how you feel them. And I just got goosebumps again.

Lani:
The third step is owning it and along with owning it is being so grateful. I cherish. My grandma’s with me all the time. And if I go in my head and start feeling sorry for myself, I can’t feel her love. So that’s why step number two is so important because hello, we can feel this unconditional love all the time.

Lani:
My grandma did have a very gnarly, painful, tragic death, like the passing. But because I’m so connected to love and I’ve done step one, I’ve decided I want to feel unconditional love. And I do step two every day, all day and I open up and I connect and get out of my head and into my body.

Lani:
I get to remember all of the most incredible times and how loved I feel. I got teared up again every morning when I hear her laugh. She has the most amazing laugh. It’s as powerful as the kids on Monsters, Inc. where one laugh can power the whole city. Her laugh just brings tears to my eyes because it was so full of love and she just is the most joyous human.

Lani:
And I feel like she’s… I say is sometimes because I can feel the love. So it’s sacred to me. I’m not ignoring it when I feel her, I’m like, “Thank you.” When I ask for help or when she totally helps me, I own it. And not in the fact that I’m so amazing, but what I mean is I cherish it. So cherishing the moments and the signs and the love that you get from your guardian angel. And knowing that you’re not alone, because that is the biggest fear of humans, isn’t it?

Lani:
“Oh, I’m not enough. So therefore I can’t be loved.” And then it’s the fear of being alone. And if you can really tell your ego to fuck off. And drop into your soul long enough to accept the truth, which is that you’re not alone ever, ever, then that alleviates so much of the pain and suffering that our negative thoughts cause about, “If I’m not good enough, then I won’t be loved and then I’ll be alone.”

Lani:
And I mean, I attribute all of my success first of all, is to my higher power, the universe and Mother Earth and nature. And I don’t do this alone. I have a full team. I told you my clients’ guardian angels come to me all the time. I’m like doing my meditations, just wanting to connect to my own angels and their angels are coming in. I’m like messaging them, “Dude, your angels are so strong. They came to me.” And they’re like, “Oh yeah, that’s amazing. We know they’re strong.” It’s so cute. So we’re never alone. That’s one of the greatest truths that I’ve learned that’s completely changed my life.

Lani:
So amazing. So if you need more and you want to expand on this, I do live online free healing meditations in my free workshops. So again, I’ll put all the information in the description. It’s free, it’s online. And yes, I do the life healing meditation. So it’s incredible. It’ll blow your mind. Will absolutely be the most empowering thing you’ve done for yourself up to this year, for sure. It’s incredible.

Lani:
And if you need more videos, of course, I have all these incredible videos on how to thrive, right now. How to connect to unconditional love. Definitely do not skip step two. Do that Mother Earth healing meditation. If you liked the video, please like it. Subscribe, hit the bell icon.

Lani:
And if there’s somebody that you know needs to hear this, please share it with them. Our vision is to help a million 1,000,000 women by 2020 and the way we do that is by sharing the love and just inspiring that there’s another way. We don’t have to suffer. All right, I’ll see you all soon. Bye.